I am from a middle class family, in law school, to pursue a better life for my family. I want to teach my children what my parents taught me as well as what they might have not known to teach me that children of wealthy parents might learn.
Please only responses from those who are wealthy.
I am not sure if you would label me as wealthy.
From the moment my children starting talking about life an education has been part of that discussion. There is no doubt in their mind that they will have careers and those careers require education.
I also discuss money with them, including looking over my records (with the teens) to show them about assets, cash, obligations etc.
A big difference I see between me and more middle class families, is that honesty and integrity are important values, not just within ourselves, but the friends we choose. My children would not even think about taking advantage of another human being.
As I own a lot of property and people of different classes live in those properties they are exposed to various life styles. I think that helps too, knowing how other people live ("see, you will live like this without a good job") helps them make choices about their own lives.
I also teach my kids that every single one of us decides out income, life styles, etc on our own. I hold them, myself, and others accountable.